Integrity

"Perhaps the surest test of an individual's integrity is his refusal to do or say anything that would damage his self-respect."    -Thomas S. Monson


Integrity is a word many of us choose to live by, yet do not know the definition of.  We don't really need to-we recognize it when we see or experience it, and are painfully aware of occasions when we don't.  It has become one of the traits I value most in other people and myself.

My father taught me to be courteous to everyone; that being courteous had nothing to do with the other person, yet spoke volumes about myself.  I believe that was my first lesson in learning about integrity-that my response to a situation or person need not be based on anything outside my own self-worth and dignity.

There was a time long ago, in my early years, that I misplaced my integrity.  Needless to say, it was by far, the most miserable of times.  However, the lessons learned during that time have proved to be invaluable.  Most importantly, I learned never to trade on, settle for less than, or compromise my own integrity.  I also learned that another person's integrity, or lack thereof, is none of my business.  "To thine own self be true" is not just another trite saying-these are words to live by.